My Parents are not divorced but live in two seperate houses and I want to choose who to live with?

Im 13 and im about to be 14 on the 12th of February. I Live in Berkeley/Pt. Richmond, California. My parents live in to different houses (Mom in Pt. Richmond and Dad in Berkeley) but are not officially "divorced". I want to live with my Dad who lives in Berkeley. It's not that I don't like my Mom but theres to many sacrifices when I switch to Pt. Richmond. For Example: I have to get up earlier when I'm at my Moms, I 'm to tired in 1st Period (A class I'm already struggling with [History/English]), I lost my girlfriend (one of the worst sacrifices cuase I REALLY liked her), and many more but theres not enough room to fit them. If I only lived in my Dads house none of these problems would have ever existed. Neither of my parents agree with me and for some wierd reason I get in trouble for bringing it up.

PLEASE. I got to have some say in where I live! It's my life and I want to have some say on where I live.

My Parents are not divorced but live in two seperate houses and I want to choose who to live with?

if they do get a divorce..you can ask the judge if you can live with your dad.your are old enought to make that decsion..but your dad also has to be wiling to take you in

My Parents are not divorced but live in two seperate houses and I want to choose who to live with?

Just tell your dad you want to live with him, but I bet it would break your moms heart.

My Parents are not divorced but live in two seperate houses and I want to choose who to live with?

What you say makes sense....to get what you want you made need to offer something.

My Parents are not divorced but live in two seperate houses and I want to choose who to live with?

I hope you don't choose one parent over another. It would be a decision that you would regret a great deal when you get older. Maybe if you're always tired at 1st period when you're with your mom you should take the initiative and go to bed earlier. I know teens are loath to do so, but the fact is, teens need way more sleep than they're accustomed to getting. As far as girlfriends go, an understanding girlfriend wouldn't condemn you for your living situation.

My Parents are not divorced but live in two seperate houses and I want to choose who to live with?

Sounds like you should live with your dad and stay with your mom during some of the summer or on the weekends. I plan on staying with my dad this summer and work for him (he owns a restaurant) just because i never see him and that his house has a lot more room than my mom's house.

My Parents are not divorced but live in two seperate houses and I want to choose who to live with?

I sympathize with you, but I don't think this is an issue you wll win.

Your parents are obviously having problems and there is a reason you live with your Mom even if you do not know what it is. You get in trouble for bringing it up because it is a sore oint with them too.

Let it rest for now, the school year is more than half over. Things may change next year.

My Parents are not divorced but live in two seperate houses and I want to choose who to live with?

Does your dad want you to live with him??? That's a question you need to ask him, before you decide to make changes he might not want to accept..........

If it's decided by your dad to be okay, then at 13 it is your decision to make, but it will need to go thru the court system if your mom doesn't sign off on the custodial papers........

My Parents are not divorced but live in two seperate houses and I want to choose who to live with?

Your dad doesn't want you living with him, so why force the issue ? I know you say it's more convenient for you but maybe you should stay in the child's place %26amp; let the parents do what they feel they have to do !! there is obviously something else happening that they [parents] don't want you involved in.. So just stand back %26amp; go to bed earlier it's just that simple..